What questions challenge your advisors/mentors?
The reality is the questions here are the big questions we all have. In university, your mentors are great for asking simple questions to such as: “which course should I do next?” or “what are some good career options to look in to?”. More complex questions, which are usually individual and deep personal searches, are hard for all of us.
Does that mean you shouldn’t have those discussions with your advisors and mentors? No, but expect them to be long conversations that you will need to reflect on more than you possibly thought going in.
So, what are these questions?
“What should I do with my life/career/major?”
Those are big questions. Flavors of that question are hidden in others such as, “should I do this major or this major?” or “will I like this job?”
There are two certainties to deep questions of your future. One, it’s a personal decision. Two, the decision can be an educated decision, but is impossible to make as right or wrong – it is just a chosen path.
Find office hour times to have this discussion – quiet times are best
Your mentors and advisors can provide suggestions on how to help explore these questions, but they can not solve them for you. For even something as simple as picking a major and what career will I have once I complete this major, all an advisor can tell you is where people have gone previously with certain paths, and provide insight on their own experiences and paths.
The bigger task is for you to determine which path you want to take now. And here is the problem. Not all paths can be taken. Only one can be pursued. At some point, you just have to make a decision and take a path. Once on that path, observe opportunities and, potentially, take other paths. A little bit of reflection and thought along the path will guide you in, hopefully, better directions for you, but the unpredictable is, well, unpredictable.